Unlike the way we see it happen in the movies, becoming pregnant doesn’t usually happen in one go. Getting pregnant takes time, patience and consistency, and there’s a chance that fertilization may not happen for you even with careful planning -and that’s okay. Infertility is very common across both men and women, but luckily, there are many avenues of conceiving or building out a family that you can also try. Read on to learn more about the options you have, and how to navigate the emotions that come with them.